On a wall in HQ: Forward, not back.
“Mom, what time do you normally go to bed?” “Midnight.” “Wow! Really?? But you don’t have bags under your eyes!” “Why, thank you!” (note: check son’s eyesight) “And you are really nice and happy in the morning!”
I want my kids to start their day in a positive way, feel good, get out the door knowing they are loved. I work h-a-r-d to make that happen. And look-y there.